Intimacy & Relationship coaching
Intimacy / Relationship Coaching
I’m Jay and I am a Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach™, so I can share with you the most sophisticated, detailed and practical sx education for pleasure, fulfillment, and satisfaction available on Earth! The Erotic Blueprints are a powerful yet simple framework that describes and defines the ways bodies are wired to experience the world and specifically, pleasure. The Erotic Blueprints are a body’s erotic language – like the five Love Languages™ but for sexuality.
There are 5 Blueprints; Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky and Shapeshifter
Knowing your type gives you a beginning point to use this information… the challenge is learning how to apply this to your sex life and relationships.
That’s where my expertise comes in; I will
- Help you discover what lights your body up with turn on & what your true erotic blueprint is.
- Help you learn to speak out & how to communicate your desires so they can be satisfied.
- Assist you to understand the needs of your partner’s so you can play, and to get beyond what’s been challenging you.
- Show the way to creating deeper intimacy, sexual satisfaction & fulfillment for you and your partner.
Knowing your Erotic Blueprint is paramount to you understanding yourself on a deep level, knowing what you want, and being able to speak up for yourself in an effective manner that gets your needs met so you can feel fulfilled.
Knowing the Blueprint of your partner(s) is wonderful for both you and them! When you know, you can truly honor, see, feel, and understand them to the core, which gives you deep connection.
We typically give pleasure in the way we want to receive it, and if it is a mismatch to our partner’s wiring this can cause resentment, upset, starvation, and unfulfillment. This is the state most of my clients are in when they first reach out for help.
This state can lead to being in a sexless relationship or fears of losing your partner. If you’re there, know you are not alone and there is hope! Most of my client couples recover their relationship and those that don’t, part ways feeling really grounded and conscious and secure in their decisions.
When we do know one another’s Blueprint we are able to honor the deepest core essence of our being-ness. We are able to meet each other in ways that are fulfilling, satisfying, deeply connecting and fun!
If you want to build your sexual confidence, experience out-of-this-world sx, and take a peek at how this information could change your life, I invite you to apply for a complimentary possibility call with me. On this call, we’re going to discuss what you’re wanting for your sex life, what’s getting in the way, and how I may be able to assist you in getting that. When you choose to work with me, we get to discover and explore your Core Erotic Blueprint(s)™ to expand your pleasure potential, grow your sexual mastery, and increase your capacity for deep and authentic connection to yourself and your lovers.
Become a Master at Understanding Pleasure
What would life be like if you had a secret decoder to understand what would bring pleasure and erotic fulfillment to you and anyone else at any given moment?
How would your life change if you could experience orgasmic pleasure with ease and without fail?
How would life be different if you could read your partner’s body language and know if it means they are enjoying or not enjoying what you’re offering?
What if you had a common vocabulary about sexuality and eroticism that was easy to understand and made it fun to speak up, share, give, and receive?
What if the pressures around sex no longer existed and there was space, wonder, curiosity, and delight?
What would this do for your relationships?
What would this do for your self-pleasure?
What would this do for your confidence?

Tel: 828.768.9444
Email: jay@activatealiveness.com
Brevard North Carolina 28768